I’m a dork, not that attractive, yet I still manage to go out on at least one date a week with a very attractive female that I meet through online dating websites.  The women that are on online-dating websites are full of self-doubt, tarnished relationships, and are indecisive as to what they are looking for.  That means the “average” guy can easily go out on multiple dates every single month.  There are thousands of women in your city looking to go out on dates any night of the week.  You simply have to take action and start approaching the many women in your city that are listed on dating websites.

The following is a quick action guide to start approaching women through online dating websites:

1. Step One: Introduction

Discuss why you think online dating works or doesn’t work.

2. Step Two: Mention something that stands out in her profile (humor, beauty, similarities)

You want your comment to be something that invokes an emotional response.  The emotional response should cause her to become defensive, but not upset or “turned off” by your comment.  A soft/sly remark is the best way to garner attention.  Make sure every email you send to each girl is targeted towards her profile.  After you create enough of these emails, you can start re-using them for similar situations.

3. Step 3: Tell her about yourself

One or two sentences here, make it quick and funny.  For example, if you are on a Jewish dating website, you might say, “I’m the Matzah king baby….will you be my Matzah queen?”

4. Step 4: Call to action

What you want her to do after reading your email?  For example, ask her, “If she was in Europe, what would be the thing she would want to see and do?”

5. Step 5: Sign off

Put your name, email, instant messenger account.  In the follow-up email you will want to include only your name and phone number.  Most likely the woman will email you back with just her name and telephone number.