You can learn how to effectively interact with beautiful women that live in your city through online dating websites.  The average online dating woman will receive 35-100 emails and instant messaging requests a month.  Only 20% of the men contacting her will receive a response indicating an interest at a possible future encounter.  Are you one of the 80% of men that don’t know how to effectively communicate, portray, and entice women online?

Women will spend on average 3-12 hours a week viewing and communicating with men that solicit them through online dating websites.  There are systematic steps you can take to greatly improve your chances of enticing and meeting-up with multiple women every month.

The following are ten steps that can get you a woman from an online dating site right now:

1.    Online dating is a numbers game, the more women you approach the better chance you have of getting an offline date.  However, you want to automate your online dating activities to save you as much time as possible.
2.    Contact unattractive females to increase your confidence, dialogue, and socialization capabilities.
3.    Don’t ask for a telephone number, ask for a screen name, then talk on aol instant messenger, yahoo messenger, MSN, etc…  Once you talk on messenger for a short period, then ask for her telephone number.
4.    Don’t act immature.  Immature means making insulting comments regarding the persons profile, image, or writing.  You need to act 20% immature to effectively be humorous and generate self-doubt in the target.
5.    When asking for a telephone number, it should only be asked for when it appears a part of the natural dialogue of communication.
6.    Don’t just include a photo of your face.  Include action shots (driving a car, water skiing, hiking, snow boarding) and photos that demonstrate higher value (a photo of your fine Italian shoes – should not be an attempt at vanity).  Let the photo do all the talking, don’t boast.
7.    Make your doubt in her profile your attention grabber.  For example, in the subject heading write, “This user might be interested in talking with you.”
8.    A lot of women on dating websites are there for just entertainment.  The more you can entertain them, the better chance you stand of going out on a date with them.  Impressing them with your job, money, car, isn’t going to work.  You need to entertain them!
9.    Don’t show women from online dating sites your MySpace account.  It says you are “dorky” and wired into the internet.  Most women want a man that can walk away from the net on their date.
10.    Meeting up for a coffee might work with some girls.  But if you want to close, go out for appetizers and drinks.  Don’t waste money on a big dinner, instead, find a lounge that offers drinks and appetizers.