I have been doing online dating for 5 years and I know what works and what doesn’t.

Online dating vs. offline dating share similar characteristics and major differences:

Similarities:

1.    First impressions are based on looks
2.    Women are pursued, and men are the pursuers
3.    Humor can help build attraction
4.    The approach counts for 80% of future interaction
5.    It’s hard to maintain a relationship as they require a lot of work

Differences:

1.    The approach can be done in such a way that physical appearances play a much less important initial role
2.    History, interests, and characteristics can be studied before deciding to commit to interaction
3.    Women pursue men just as much as men pursue women
4.    Women are more open to interacting with you because of less peer pressure from friends and social norms don’t come into play
5.    Women on dating websites are there because they want to date! Women in bars and other settings are not necessarily there to date.

Finding love and interacting with the opposite sex is a difficult task.  Practice makes perfect, and most men don’t take the time it requires to master the social dynamic of interacting with women.  If you were devote every working hour to meeting, engaging, and closing women, instead of going to work and conducting business, you wouldn’t need help with dating.  Online dating can be the fast track method to meeting and picking up women you have been looking for.  However, there are differences from meeting women offline vs. online.  I know the five immediate steps you can take to start meeting and taking out women from online-dating websites.  Please fill out the form to the right if you are interested in learning more about how to successfully approach women online.

I’m a dork, not that attractive, yet I still manage to go out on at least one date a week with a very attractive female that I meet through online dating websites.  The women that are on online-dating websites are full of self-doubt, tarnished relationships, and are indecisive as to what they are looking for.  That means the “average” guy can easily go out on multiple dates every single month.  There are thousands of women in your city looking to go out on dates any night of the week.  You simply have to take action and start approaching the many women in your city that are listed on dating websites.

The following is a quick action guide to start approaching women through online dating websites:

1. Step One: Introduction

Discuss why you think online dating works or doesn’t work.

2. Step Two: Mention something that stands out in her profile (humor, beauty, similarities)

You want your comment to be something that invokes an emotional response.  The emotional response should cause her to become defensive, but not upset or “turned off” by your comment.  A soft/sly remark is the best way to garner attention.  Make sure every email you send to each girl is targeted towards her profile.  After you create enough of these emails, you can start re-using them for similar situations.

3. Step 3: Tell her about yourself

One or two sentences here, make it quick and funny.  For example, if you are on a Jewish dating website, you might say, “I’m the Matzah king baby….will you be my Matzah queen?”

4. Step 4: Call to action

What you want her to do after reading your email?  For example, ask her, “If she was in Europe, what would be the thing she would want to see and do?”

5. Step 5: Sign off

Put your name, email, instant messenger account.  In the follow-up email you will want to include only your name and phone number.  Most likely the woman will email you back with just her name and telephone number.