It is increasingly becoming more competitive to successfully attract and date women from online dating websites.  I have been dating women from online websites for over four years and I know exactly how to approach, communicate, and “close.”

1.    Profile picture – find which picture receives the most favorable response.
2.    Profile characteristics – it’s not a good idea to lie about your height!  But you can change your religion, nationality (not too drastically), income, etc…
3.    Introduction / summary – humor, passions, and adventure attract women more then lame stories about your dog and inability to find love.  You need to sell yourself and entertain at the same time.

In my years of dating women online I have found that not all online dating websites are the same.  There are free online dating services, low cost online dating services, and premium services that provide an entirely different type of experience.  You need to determine if you are trying to meet women for fun, romance, long-term, short-term, swinging, or friendship before you decide which online dating service to use.  I have utilized over a dozen online dating services and would be happy to share with you the ones I have found to be the easiest to meet and “score” with women.

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I’m a dork, not that attractive, yet I still manage to go out on at least one date a week with a very attractive female that I meet through online dating websites.  The women that are on online-dating websites are full of self-doubt, tarnished relationships, and are indecisive as to what they are looking for.  That means the “average” guy can easily go out on multiple dates every single month.  There are thousands of women in your city looking to go out on dates any night of the week.  You simply have to take action and start approaching the many women in your city that are listed on dating websites.

The following is a quick action guide to start approaching women through online dating websites:

1. Step One: Introduction

Discuss why you think online dating works or doesn’t work.

2. Step Two: Mention something that stands out in her profile (humor, beauty, similarities)

You want your comment to be something that invokes an emotional response.  The emotional response should cause her to become defensive, but not upset or “turned off” by your comment.  A soft/sly remark is the best way to garner attention.  Make sure every email you send to each girl is targeted towards her profile.  After you create enough of these emails, you can start re-using them for similar situations.

3. Step 3: Tell her about yourself

One or two sentences here, make it quick and funny.  For example, if you are on a Jewish dating website, you might say, “I’m the Matzah king baby….will you be my Matzah queen?”

4. Step 4: Call to action

What you want her to do after reading your email?  For example, ask her, “If she was in Europe, what would be the thing she would want to see and do?”

5. Step 5: Sign off

Put your name, email, instant messenger account.  In the follow-up email you will want to include only your name and phone number.  Most likely the woman will email you back with just her name and telephone number.